Sex: Adultery, Contentment, Comparism

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In July 2017, a husband of four allegedly died during sex romp with his mistress (https://punchng.com/husband-of-four-dies-during-sex-romp-with-mistress/).

Last year November, a 65 year-old man died during sex romp with 34-year-old lover in a hotel in Awka, the Anambra State capital (https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/295101-man-dies-during-sex-romp-with-lover-in-hotel.html).

In December, 2018, a man simply identified as Davy took a bet of N50,000 with his lover, Loveth, that he would defeat her in bed. He reportedly slumped and died on the 7th round of the sex romp (https://www.pulse.ng/news/metro/man-slumps-dies-on-7th-round-of-sex-romp/tfd3n3k).

Sometime in April this year, three male students of Federal University of Technology, Owerri, Imo State, died in a an alleged sex romp with a lady after an alleged drug overdose (suspected to be Tramadol. Read more: https://punchng.com/three-sex-romp-victims-were-our-students-says-futo/).

Earlier this year, a business man from Anambra died during alleged marathon sex with a widow in Enugu. The deceased is said to be in his 50s (https://www.sunnewsonline.com/man-dies-in-sex-romp-in-enugu-hotel/).

Four days ago, a businessman died during sex romp with his secret lover in Aguda area of Surulere, Lagos (https://www.livetimesng.com/man-dies-in-lagos-hotel-during-sex-romp-with-secret-lover/).

You see, these sad stories of men dying during marathon sex with their girlfriends and mistresses are fast becoming a daily thing. In 9 out of every ten of such sex romps, it’s the man that ends up dead and not the woman. Unfortunately, none of those irresponsible men seems to have learned anything from these terrible incidents.

One interesting thing, however, is that you hardly hear that a man died while having legitimate intercourse with his wife. It has always been about adulterers and fornicators. They are the ones that engage in the stupid act called marathon sex.

As a married man, there’s nothing to prove to your wife about your manliness. If you’re the ‘one minute indomie’ type, perhaps you have premature ejaculation, get medical solutions to it if madam starts complaining. If she doesn’t, enjoy your one minute and live a healthy life.

If every man and woman remain chaste before marriage and faithful in marriage, there won’t be any comparison or complain about how long a sexual activity should last. It’s what you get that you take.

Look, stop destroying your life with all these sex enhancers and aphrodisiacs that people sell up and down. Have sexual intercourse your normal way and make the most of it. Stop comparing yourself with others. Your friend’s husband drives a G-wagon and fires his engine at 250km/h, while your own husband drives a Keke Napep and goes at 20km/h, manage your Keke and savour the trip.

No one will award you any medal for the number of hours spent on your sexual trip or the number of kilometers covered within that period.

Don’t kill yourself! More importantly, don’t go and die a shameful death!!!

©Sanusi Lafiagi

11 STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE…

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1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:
You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will happen.
A Lot of women have done this and end up regretting. As a godly woman it's wrong.

2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it.

3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:
“I am married i can relax, after all who is looking at me.?”
He married you Slim, sexy and trendy. Next thing you become obsessed, dirty and shabbily dressed.
It is the mistake of most careless married women.

4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY:
You are a career woman; You are an overly religious woman… Hmmm! You feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His Secretary, colleagues and girls in church are seducing and begging him to come to them but you have padlocked your JERUSALEM and expect him not to lust after others. His mind will drift from you towards them.

5) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR:
“My dear friend, please be my eye as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids”. By the time you are back, your dear friend has so really helped you by sleeping with your husband and expecting a new baby as continuation from where you stopped.
If at all she has not eloped with your man, leaving your children all alone.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active friend.

6) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:
Your maid is the one that cooks,cleans the house, cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a LAZY BONE since the arrival of the maid.
All you do is shout and place orders. Not bad! But if your husband feels more love and care from the maid, sister that maid won’t struggle to snatch your husband. You are the one graciously giving him to her and those that need him.

7) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD.

          "THE MOST ESSENTIAL OF ALL"

A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly because the Bible says "by strength shall no man prevail".
Don’t make such mistakes of thinking you are in charge of your husband and marriage and you can handle things.
NOTE: "Wives are God's human partner to help MATURE and MAXIMIZE their HUSBANDS"
This is only achieved and possible on a daily bases on your knees!
May you never labour in vain and another reaps where you have sown.

8) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
When you tell your friends about your sex life and how your husband rocks you, you are indirectly telling them to go have a feel of him. They can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not.
They may even know your Husband’s “turn on” and use it against him then grab your husband.
Most women have carelessly lost their husbands as they boast to their friends “my husband is too sexually demanding, he is an expert when it comes to sex, he is a horse, he almost kills me in bed, he has a horse size” etc… Your friends will pick information like this and cover things up where you have been failing.

9) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:
It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will hurt you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum unless his mum is so god fearing, honest and impartial.

10) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND:
Many wives abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive they transfer all affection to their kids.
To sleep in bed, they put the Baby in between themselves making the man feel lost and the bond divided. No warm hugs, caress etc.

11) USING SEX WRONGLY:
Sex is supposed to bind you both together, it is supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention.
Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation;
Some use it for trade by barter.
*Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” “How about that money I asked you to give me?” Etc…*
This is just too bad.

Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear Jean, knickers to bed.
Nothing sexy
Nothing erotic
Nothing romantic
Nothing Inviting!
If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also. He will start lusting and chasing sexy daughters of Jezebel out there who may fetish him out of home to themselves

A godly wife builds her home on her knees, the stupid ones plucks it down.
I know you will be like…. Why can’t he have self control and stay faithful?

Forget it dear.

We are all humans and things push us to do things we never planned, but his grace is sufficient for us!

Be wise!!!
....Building godly relationship

GUIDE YOUR TONGUE, ESPECIALLY WHEN RELATING WITH YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS. WIFE, HUSBAND OR KIDS, ET AL.

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HERE'S THE REASON :

Genius OR Mentally Ill ?

A story is told about a young Thomas Edison who came home one day with a paper for his mother. He told her, 'My teacher told me to give this paper only to my mother.'

Thomas' mother read the note and her eyes filled with tears. Thomas asked his mother what the note said, and she read aloud,
'Your son is a genius. This school is too small for him and doesn't have enough good teachers for training him. Please teach him yourself.'

And that's exactly what Thomas' mother did; she home-schooled her child with devotion and dedication.

As the story goes, many years later after Thomas Edison's mother passed away, and he was now one of the world's greatest inventors, he found a folded paper among other family items.

He opened the very same paper that had been handed to him to give to his mother and read the following message:
'Your son is mentally ill. We won't let him come to school anymore.'

At that moment, Edison realised what his mother had done for him so many years ago.

He wrote in his diary: 'Thomas Alva Edison was an addled child that, by a hero mother, became the genius of the century.'

In the book of Proverbs we learn: 'The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.'

Can you imagine what might have happened to Thomas Edison if his mother had read to him the reckless and hurtful words written by his foolish teacher? He might never have invented the light bulb or made his many other contributions to society.
Thank God for the wisdom and wise words of his mother! She created the context in which her son could grow to his full potential.

MORAL:

Let's take this message to heart and resolve to use our words for healing today.
You might be a parent, what do you say to your children....

You might be a teacher, what do you say to your student... especially the ones that are not really performing well presently....

What do you say about your parents, family, boss, subordinate, leader, colleague, follower....
Just as hurtful words can cause uncontrolled damage for life, so can wise words positively affect a person for life.

May the words you use today change a life for the better. So wisely select your words inspiringly when communicating with anyone in your day to day life and make a difference in the life's of others.

There is POWER in the tongue.

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HOW TO TREAT YOUR WIFE

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  Don’t shout at your
       wife when you are
       talking. It really hurts her.
 
Do not speak evil of her to anyone.        Your wife will become
       who you call her.
 
Do not share her love
      or affection with another
      woman.
      It is called Adultery.
 
Never compare your
       wife to another woman.
       If the other woman was
       good for you, God would
       have given her to you.
 
Be gentle and accommodating. She
       has sacrificed so much
       to be with you. It hurts her deeply
       when you are hash
       and irritating. Be tender.
 
Hide nothing from her.
       You are now one and
       she’s your helpmate.
       Let there be no secret
       you are keeping from her.
 
Do not make negative
       comment about her
       body. She risked her
       life and beauty to carry
       your babies. She is a
       living soul not just
       flesh and blood.
 
Do not let her body
       determine her worth.
       Cherish and appreciate
       her even till old age.

  Never shout at her
       in the public and in
       private. If you have
       an issue to sort with
       her, do it in the privacy
       of your room.
 
Thank and appreciate
       her for taking good
       care of you, the kids
       and the house. It is
       a great sacrifice she
       is making.

  All women cannot
       cook the same way;
       appreciate your wife’s food.
       It is not easy to cook
       three meals a day,
       365 days a year for several years.
 
Never place your siblings before her.
       She is your wife. She is one with you.
       She must come before your family.

  Invest seriously in
      her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes   and any material that will
      edify her & strengthen
       her walk with God. That’s the best thing
       you can do for her.
 
Spend time with her
       to study word of God
       and pray.
 
Make time to play
       with her and enjoy
       her company.
       Remember when you
       are dead, she’s gonna
       be by your grave but
       your friends may be
       too busy to attend
       your funeral.
 
Never use money
       to manipulate or control her. All your
       money belongs to
       her. She is a joint heir
       with you of the grace of God.
 
Do not expose her
       weakness. You will be
       exposing yourself too.
       Be a shield around her.
 
Honour her parents
       and be kind to her
       siblings.
 
Never cease to tell
       her how much you
       love her all the days
       of her life. Women
       are never tired of
       hearing that.     

SAVE A HOME TODAY,              

PASS IT ON TO ALL MEN PLEASE

LIKEWISE TO ALL WOMEN.

Let Woman Have Her Choice

This is a very interesting story and a lesson for men.

(To men) Please take time to ponder. 😕

(To women) Just enjoy the story. 😋

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom.

The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question was:
*What do women really want?*

Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man. And to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men, and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer. But the price would be high as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but first he would have to agree to her price.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table, and Arthur's closest friend. Young Arthur was horrified.

She was hunch-backed and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc.

He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden.

But Lancelot, having learnt of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life. And the reservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered.

Arthur's question thus:
"What a woman really wants?"

She said, "A woman wants to be in charge of her own life."

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth, and that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was. The neighbouring monarch granted Arthur his freedom. And Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and, Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him.

The most beautiful woman he had ever seen was sitting by the bed.

The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth become her horrible and deformed self only half the time, and be the beautiful maiden the other half.

"Which would you prefer?" She asked him. "BEAUTIFUL during the DAY... OR at NIGHT?"

Lancelot pondered the predicament.

During the day, he could have a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch!

OR,

would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day? But by night a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous moments with?

(If you are a man reading this) What would YOUR choice be?

(If you are a woman reading this) What would YOUR MAN'S choice be?

And Lancelot's choice is given below...

BUT, please make YOUR choice first before you scroll down below!

OKAY?

Knowing the answer the witch gave to Arthur for his question, Sir Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time, because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now, what is the moral to this 

The moral is...

1. There is a 'witch' in every woman, no matter how beautiful she is. It's how a man manages it

2. If you let a woman decide on her own she gives u d best. but if u force her with ur decisions she becomes a witch.

Hmmmm
What do you think ?

So, be careful how you treat a woman, especially your wife; so your prayers may be answered.

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